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  • Writer's pictureSammy Kalski

The holiday known as Good Friday is an oxymoron, commemorating a day that a Man is innocently put to death. It is only the events that occur three days later that make it good.


Good Friday is only good in hindsight.


The disciples didn't have the advantage we have now -- the advantage of hindsight.


The days between Jesus' death and His resurrection were no doubt the darkest and hopeless moments of their lives. Their Rabbi had been murdered. If they were found to be one of His followers, it was likely that they would meet that same fate. They devoted three years of their lives to Him, left everything they knew for Him, and He was dead. They were lost without Him. Even Peter -- the one who walked on water and cut off the ear of a solider -- denied Jesus.


I imagine the disciples gathered in someone's home, dissecting their Rabbi's teachings.


"Didn't He say, 'if you destroy this temple, I'll raise it up in three days'?"


"I think He said we wouldn't see Him for a while."


"Shhhh," one of them chided, "not so loud -- they'll hear you!"


I'm sure many of them were ready to give up. Maybe some of them did.


Good Friday is only good in hindsight.

Some of the women have gone to anoint the body of Jesus, but the eleven stayed behind. It was a quiet morning, as they were still reeling from the tragedy.


One of the Marys burst through the door, startling the small group of men.


"He's gone!" she exclaimed in between sobs. "He wasn't there!"


"What do you mean?" one of the eleven asked. "What happened?"


The other women entered with tear-stained cheeks, and they, too, could hardly explain what they saw. Finally, one of them proclaimed, "The tomb is empty!"


Silence filled the room. No one moved. One of the disciples laughed in disbelief. Peter and John ran to confirm what the women had told them.


All that met them was an empty tomb and folded graveclothes.


Like a spark igniting a flame, revelation lit in their minds. They remembered His words and rejoiced at their fresh understanding. Hope crashed over them in a wave and swept away their despair.


"Jesus is alive!"


What a bold claim. A daring, finger-in-your-face sort of statement. Dangerous. Dangerous because it meant that the movement the Pharisees and Sadducees sought to squash hadn't died with Jesus. No, not at all -- it had been resurrected with Him.


Good Friday is only good in hindsight.


We celebrate Good Friday and the events leading to it because of that claim: Jesus is alive. The world changed as the disciples proclaimed the risen Savior in all four corners of the earth. We celebrate Good Friday as the day Jesus defeated sin and death.


Good Friday is also a reminder that sometimes understanding will only come in hindsight. Jesus could have warned His disciples:


"Hey guys, just so you know, I'm going to be beaten beyond human recognition and murdered in the most excruciating way possible, but don't worry, I'll raise myself from the dead."


Honestly, what would have the disciples had done?


What would you do if someone told you every hardship you would endure? If God revealed His exact plan for you right now, from the highest of highs to the lowest of lows, would you welcome it or run from it?


God sees all, from creation to the crucifixion to the second coming. He views every moment in our lives from a place beyond hindsight.


Rejoice this Good Friday and Resurrection Sunday that no matter what, God sees you and He has a plan to give you life more abundantly.


Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?” (John 11:25-26 NKJV)



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  • Writer's pictureSammy Kalski

I love my birthday. Like, I kept a countdown in my assignment notebook in middle school. I use it as an excuse to celebrate all month long. March is also a great birthday month -- it's spring, I get aquamarine as my birthstone -- and the day, March 15, or the Ides of March, which is the day Julius Caesar was assassinated (just a little fun fact for ya). It's great!

In honoring of turning 23, I thought I'd share a birthday bucket list. These are 23 items I want to hopefully do or experience during my 24th trip around the sun.

1) Go on a road trip with my best friends.

It doesn't even have to be far! A weekend getaway would be great.


2) Try new recipes.

I'd really like to get into baking more. A life goal of mine is to find that one signature recipe that I'm always asked to bring.


3) Land a paid writing job.

Freelance, copywriter, editor -- anything! I just want to use my degree, man.


4) Discover hidden gems in Milwaukee.

I know there's so many and I love supporting local small businesses.


5) Participate in a writing contest.

I don't care if I win anything. I just want more opportunities to improve my writing.


6) Get a manicure just for fun.

A philosophy I'm trying to incorporate in my life is that any occasion can be a special occasion. I don't have to save something or wait to do something until it's a "special" occasion. The last time I got a real manicure (and not the $5 press-ons from Target) was junior prom!


7) Paint with watercolors more often.

I have so many watercolor sets that I need to use. I've used watercolors in my bullet journal a few times and it was really fun to experiment.


8) Do a Color Run.

This may not be possible just yet, but a Color Run has always been on my bucket list.


9) Improve my vocabulary.

In case you haven't noticed, I love words and languages. Improving my vocabulary can also mean words in other languages! Lately I've been listening to Korean and French music and I'd love to keep a vocab list from those songs.


10) Watch more documentaries.

My mom bought a subscription to Curiositystream, a streaming service dedicated to just documentaries. I want to watch some on cats!


11) Learn to be a better conversationalist.

I'm an introvert, so small talk is difficult for me. I also often have the attitude of 'if I don't have a reason to talk to you I won't', which isn't always the best.


12) Plan my next trip to Europe.

It's been two years since I left for Germany, and I really missing traveling. I'm always game to go back to Germany, but France and Italy have been on my mind, too.

13) Redo one of my wall galleries in my room.

I have two wall galleries in my room (one above my bed and the other above my plush chair). I've never been happy with the small one but haven't taken the time to redo it.


14) Take a dance class.

I took ballet for about four years in elementary school and I loved it. I've always wanted to take a class or two.

15) Create a scrapbook.

I've been meaning to make one for my study abroad trip since I got home.


16) Go on more walks.

Walks are good for the body and the mind. As the weather is getting warmer, I want to get outside more.


17) Query my Cinderella novel to an agent.

Querying an agent means asking them to represent my book to publishers in hopes they'll buy it. My goal is to get rejected. A lot.


18) Plan picnic dates with my friends.

Picnics are just so fun and I love making things look pretty. Cottagecore vibes all around!


19) Take an art class.

I took an art class every year in high school and I miss them. I love making art, but I'm not talented enough to just make something. I need to be told what to do.


20) Buy fresh flowers more often.

See number 5. Flowers make me happy and I don't need a reason to buy them.


21) Write another book.

NaNoWriMo 2021, here I come.


22) Take more steps towards being who God wants me to be.

Each year of life I'm given is a blessing and I want to give it back to God!


23) Learn embroidery.

I've been obsessed with the embroidery trend lately and would love to be able to do it myself.

I'm not sure if I'll do everything on my birthday bucket list, but it's always nice to have idea of things to do and experience.

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